Showing posts with label Taha Whānau. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Taha Whānau. Show all posts

Monday, November 11, 2019

Whakaaturanga

This weekend was a very interesting. Sadly I lead into the weekend knowing that I wasn't going to be participating in the whakaaturanga. Having had to sit on the side for my rugby grand final I had accepted that the same thing was to happen so I was mentally prepared for that.

My aim was to go into the weekend helping where ever I could and be beside my brothers and sisters along the way for encouragement.

As the night went into day and the day into night I observed everyone learning the final moves, knowing where there places are, perfecting grasps of their rākau, preparing the marae atea, weaving and fitting kākahu, embodying the movements of their rākau, embodying what is looks like to be a certain bird, mastering the footwork, mastering moving as one,  thinking about the best place to stand, remembering lines, battling with egos of others, battling with your own ego, trying not to think about being hungry, working in the heat, sore feet, containing excitement of whānau that are coming to watch, thinking about what whānau will think,  working alongside each other and teaching what you know and have learned, protecting your ariki (if it was me again nope!, battle formations, remembering what side to go to or not, sparring, controlling your ihi,  karo, pao, ngā ahae mezmerized whānau, excited tamrariki, kina, kina, kina!!

The journey leading up to the whakaturanga is always special but I was blown away by the efforts of my brothes and sisters. At one point of the whakaaturanga a whole heap of smoke was blowing over the atea as I looked over one of the kids had pulled a few of the big rākau out of the fire and they created a heap of smoke. I went over to Bon and said "Oi!! you were supposed to be looking after the fire!' he seemed to be in a somewhat trance, he steps out of his trance and says 'nah sis i'm the audience at the moment." At that moment I turned to the all the people watching and every single person was mesmerized with what they were seeing. It was such a cool sight to behold and made me so proud of all whānau.
Ko tō manawa, ko tōku manawa.

Wednesday, October 23, 2019

Horowhenua Womans Rugby Champs

Following on and to complete my rugby journey that taught me more on team work and going into battle and relying and trusting my team mates much like rākau this week this group of amazing woman won the first woman's rugby final!! I was totally gutted that I was unable to participate in the game but I was so proud to be apart of the team. What an awesome bunch of positive, uplifting, serious, competitive and fun lot of personalities. Can't wait for next season!
Mā kahurangi mā whero i oti ai ngā mahi!
#rāhuiforlife



Friday, September 13, 2019

Ko tö manawa ko tõku manawa


This week I have memories that take me back to 10 years ago where I was blessed with my youngest boy. He is one of my favouritist human beings. He always makes me laugh with the quirky dumb shit he does and says. Dunno where that comes from.🤷🏿‍♀️ 
He throws challenges at all the time with his kakyhand crap and his non coordination he is a best example of kia raka te maui, kia raka te katau. It a real pleasure to teach him too. We share some special moments I love this kid ❤

My second memory takes me back 3 years ago where my daughter was faced with one of the biggest challenges of her life.  Tiari was diagnosed with a very rare blood cancer in July of 2015. She was put into isolation until they could figure out a plan moving forward.
In September she recieved a strong course of chemotherapy and on the 12th of September 2015 she had a bone marrow transplant.
She recieved an ultimate gift from someone unknown to us. She was given a new life because of this amazing superhero. As each year goes by I always take time and look at all the great experiences she has had. She is pretty amazing and I am truly greatful to her donor.
My Tiari epitimizes strength. This picture reminds me of her courage, her detemination and the fight she put up and pushed away.
 ❤Ko to manawa ko toku manawa ❤

Tuesday, September 3, 2019

Manahua te tapu o te pono!


Manahua te tapu o te pono!
Walking my truth

Having come off a weekend away with the amazing people I work with and listening to some top gurus in the area of positive behavior I find myself reflecting on relationships. Relationships with whānau, friends, colleagues, students, ex-partners, etc.A few years ago I walked away from a 14 year relationship. . At the time I was just fed up with the shit and I walked away without really deciphering what had happened.I just knew it was the right thing to do.

During the weekend one of the presenters talked about relationships and stated that the reason for them breaking down was because only one person is truly invested in it succeeding. 
It was at that moment I realized that that is exactly what happened in my relationship, its taken years but to fully understand that but it is exactly that! It was an 'ahuh' moment for me (yes all these years later🙄

Moving forward it made me think about my relationships with my whānau, friends, colleagues and students in my life and how I am contributing to them. This week I feel ready to invest and give more into the relationships I have with the awesome people I am surrounded with. ❤️

Monday, August 26, 2019

Taku Kaiako

This term our focus in our class is tangata rongonui. I tasked my students to go home and think about who their famous person would be.. The following day my class and I sat in a circle and we discussed who our tangata rongonui would be. I proceeded to tell them that after we complete our research they will have to deliver a 4 minute speech about their chosen person.
One of my students chose her aunty she was super excited and couldnt wait to get started. As the days went on each students collated more and more information.
I was delighted when this student who had chosen her aunty came and showed me all her information of her tangata rongonui, Libby Hakaraia.
As I read this brief history she had taken account of I was totally blown away with the life of experiences Libby has undertaken and the fabulous opportunities she has had. On this day I felt I got to know one of my sisters even more and I am so grateful to my student for the lesson on Libby Hakaraia.
Lessons like the one Bonnie showed me reminded me to take time to get to know your sisters a little bit more they are even more special then I ever knew.

Thank you Bonnie thank you Libby xxx
PS: Bonnie asked where I got this photo of Libby, I said online and she said to me to change this photo because it doesn't look like her aunty she looks to young! lol!

Monday, July 29, 2019

Work

This week two amazing things happened, let me explain

I work with pretty amazing bunch of people. My team leader is always forthcoming with new ideas and thoughts. She allows space to be creative and will support most ideas we want to run with. Their are 4 members in our team and I think that we are quite the combination.

We went away this week up to Auckland for a Positive Learning for Behavior conference. It was the best time away, we were able to troubleshoot issues we were having with some of our tamariki at school. We problem solved our way through our issues and we were worked really well as a team. We were all re inspired and our working relationship become a lot stronger. I love my job and the challenges its brings, I am grateful for the people I work with.

On route to Auckland we went to the airport early to have dinner at the restaurant my daughter works at. Throughout our time there I observed Kaylah waiting on tables, being jovial with her customers, organizing drinks, settling customers, delivering meals as well as helping her manager with our table. It was a real proud māmā moment! My baby flew the coup years ago and it is so nice to see her so independent. She makes me so proud.







Sunday, July 21, 2019

Matarua, e tū!

Matarua e tu!


So I attended a hui this week where a decision was made for our kapahaka group Matarua to take the regional stage again!! I am totally excited and can't wait to get involved in this!  We are entering as a competitive group with the goal to get to Matatini 2021! Our last campaign was an awesome achievement so to return as a fully competitive group is going to be massive journey. 

 



Sunday, June 30, 2019

Moko Kauae

Matariki Ahunga nui, Matariiki hunga nui, ka kite a Matariki ka maoka te hinu'

Matariki signifies the start of the maori new year and in this new year a few of the sisters are a about to embark an a massive new journey'

This week two very important events took place. These events fell in the time where some say is the best time to view Matariki which is during the Tangaroa phases. These events were for a group of amazing, tenacious, kind-hearted, beautiful, caring sisters of mine. It is at this time they are to receive their moko kauae.
I was honored to watch the nohi Mahinarangi Hakaraia receive her moko kauae on Wednesday and then to Palmy on Saturday to see Nohi Jah and Jordy receive theirs too.


For years Nohi Ma had been sharing her desire to wear her moko kauae but had debated within herself about weather or not she was ready for it or even worthy of carrying it.
I remember telling her it was her birth right and who cares what everyone else thinks and it should only be about her as she will be the one wearing it.

Last week Nohi Mā messaged us and said the date was set and asked us to come along. I was so stoked! Wednesday is a very busy day for me so I cancelled all of my after school meetings and training's as I wanted to be there to support my nohi. Tuesday night I saw nohi Ma and we were talking about how exciting the next day would be, I had also shared that I was up early that morning outside viewing the stars and reciting karakia. I said that the morning sky was stunning and a real site to behold. We decided that the next morning we would go to sand dunes and do some karakia and see if we could see Matariki.

Wednesday morning-(Moko kauae day)
In the early hours of the morning Nohi Ma and I climbed up the kuia Hinetuakirikiri. When we got to the top you could see the darkness adorned over Ōtaki. Rows of streetlights and pockets of darkness of the lands. Above in the sky was a very bright Tanagaroa-a-mua moon. She was stunning! The stars glistened and lit up the morning sky. We searched for Matariki but couldn't quite find them however we were fortunate to see a tupuna shoot across the sky. 
After realigning Nohi Ma found Matariki and it was beautiful a bit cloudy but stunning. We sat silence for a while as we observed the beauty of where were were in that point in time. We stood and joined our tupuna and recited all the karakia that we knew, we took in all the surroundings did our last mihi to Matariki and made our way home.

The day passed quickly, I left school early and made my way to Levin. I was really excited! When I arrived at the destination I was introduced to Wiremu Barriball who was the artist Nohi had chosen. Nohi Ma`s whānau were there and they seemed content. Nohi looked nervous but happy too.
We proceeded to the room and Wiremu started his mahi, the room was very quiet with some music playing softly. It was a peaceful process, Pat stood at a close enough distance to observe everything that was happening he seemed somewhat nervous but content in the same breath. The Nohi's mum and grandparents sat at a distance patiently awaiting for the process to complete. Tiana would go in and have close ups and then go back to her spot, she seemed very intrigued with the process as did Athena the nohi's niece. Te Ahitaewa and Kaea were quiet and happy but kept there distance during the process which didn't take long at all.

At the completion of receiving her moko kauae she sat up and her moko kauae looked like it was always there. It was absolutely stunning! When she got off the table everyone got up to mihi to the Nohi. Her grandfather held her face to have a look at he looked very proud. I got a bit teary eyed as I thought what an honor to have your parents and grandparents present at such an event in your life. It was an honor to be apart of this journey with my nohi.

Fast forward to Saturday the second major event on the lunar calendar took place although I wasn't present I drove to Palmerston North to eat and celebrate the other nohis getting their moko kauae. And oh my word!!! They are both stunning! What an awesome way to celebrate this time of year.

I am grateful to have such beautiful sisters! Mana wahine xx
Hari tau hou māori e ōku tuakana!

Tuesday, May 21, 2019

This is a post!- Taha Whānau

A what?

A post about the Silver Ferns Development Team!! Check us out!!

Tonight we had our first netball game with our team Silver Ferns development team.
The skill sets among st our whānau is dynamic. The way each player moves around the court was spectacular to watch. Each warrior had some fantastic movements on court, the way Tarns darted around the court to the way Karanama could fly from one end of the court to the other in the blink of an eye. Chaka and I missing all shots right under the goal post was a sight to behold. Taylah and her māmā playing to their hearts content. What more can I say but this journey had ignited the fun of getting fit!!

Monday, April 8, 2019

My final post

I have had many lessons about myself, and challenges that have crossed my path in the last year. There are always the good the bad so im goi...